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Sirrantattun matsaloli dake kawo cikas a shimfidar aure

  • Idan aka dauke bayyanannun matsaloli, kama daga aikace-aikacen gida, hidimomi ilimi da sauransu, akwai wasu boyayyun  (sanannun ga mata da miji) halaye dake kawo matsaloli, wani zubin ya kai ga mutuwar aure. Su wadannan matsaloli miji kan ji nauyi ko kunyar bayyanasu ga surkunayensa musamman a kasashe ko garuruwan da alkunya ke tasiri cikin al’adunsu. Hakama ita mata kan ji nauyi bayyanasu ga nata surkunayen ko iyayenta.

    Wadannan sirrantattun matsaloli sun hada da:

    • Wasu daga cikin maza, yayin da suka tashi kusantar iyalansu, sha’awa dake garesu itace kawai bukatarsu. Don haka, sukan kalli mace tamkar wata godiya da ba sai an lallabata ba. Lalabawa anan na nufin kirkirar hanyoyin da itama zata samu sha’awarka, yanda bukatarka da nata zai biya ba tare da ka biya bukata ka barta cikin bacin rai ba. Ire-iren wadannan dabi’un kan sa macce ta gina wani shafi  dauke da karancin kima azuciyarta. Za a waye gari sha’awar da takan yi kan mijinta ya fara dishewa. Akwana a tashi, idan shaidan yayi dace karon batta da ire-irensu sai ya fara sa masu sha’awar wani ko wasu mazaje da suke gani ko suke jin labari. Anan ne za a waye gari mai gadin gidanka shima mijin matarka ne.
    • Rashin sakewa, wasu mazajen yayin hadaka da matarsu, sukan bayyana masu wasu halaye kamar, gadara, iko, umurni, daure fuska da rashin kallon matarsu a matsayi wata abace mai muhimmanci. Babu shakka, wanna cinfuska ne dake kona zukatan mata. Yin hakan, kan sa mace tunani daban-daban kan halin mijinta. Zata fara zargin sa da ko yana neme-nemen mata a waje. Matsalar ba a nan ma ta tsaya kawai ba, babban abin takaici da macce ke tsintar kanta a ciki shine, duk yanda takai ga biya wa mijinta bukata bazata gani a fuskarsa ba belle taji daga fatar bakinsa.

    Idan mata da miji sun dau lokaci cikin wanna yanayin rayuwa, zama kan tsananta daga karshe komai na iya faruwa. Don haka mu farga.

    • Rashin tsafta: rashin safta ba daga mace kawai yake faruwa ba. Daga cikin maza, a kwai wadanda idan suka wuce gefenka zaka ji tamkar ka yi amai, ballantana ace kun hada daki guda. Mata da yawa suna fama da irin wadannan tashin tashana na doyin dutti. Abin takaici shine, maza dake da irin wannan karancin tsafta sun kasance masu iko, izza da zafin rai ga matansu.

    A karshe, ire-iren wadannan halaye kan raba zaman mata da miji. Sannan mai karatu na iya duba: Salallan mazan banza don hadaka da matan banza

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